04 March 2014
march goals
29 May 2011
about owning a home
Here are a few things I've learned over the past ten days:
1. I am overly ambitious when it comes to projects. Rewind to a month before we moved. (We owned the home for 30 days before moving.) In those thirty days, we painted 9 of 12 rooms. Although it's much easier to paint without furniture in the room, I think just painting the common areas would have been enough.
2. I tend to underestimate how long a project will take. Surely weeding all of the flower beds (that surround our entire house) and a bit of the yard will only take a couple of hours with both of us working! Fail. It took five hours. All we did was weed.
3. The greatest joy has been sprinkling fire ant killer. I'd sprinkle, and then watch those suckers take the bits of poison off for a meal. Little do they know! I HATE fire ants. It might sound a tad harsh, but I do hope it's a painful death.
4. I'm not sure which is worse: packing or unpacking. At least we have an extra bedroom that houses dozens of boxes.
5. Cereal makes for a great dinner after hours in the yard. It's pretty much all we have the energy to eat!
6. We have the best neighbors! One set (who is moving soon) brought us homemade brownies the day after we moved in. Which was slightly dangerous for me since I tend to consume large and unhealthy amounts of chocolate when I'm stressed. The others are just precious. They offer advice for the yard. (You should see theirs!) Yesterday, they dropped off a housewarming gift of landscaping lights with an offer to help us install them. So, so sweet!
7. The house we moved from (where I lived for four years) didn't have a bathtub. Now that I have one, I can't get enough! And it's so big that I can almost stretch out completely in it. Ha!
Husby and I are both off tomorrow. I plan to organize our bathroom and my closet. (Yes, we have seperate sinks and closets. And I couldn't be more excited.) We're also going to a movie. Hopefully we'll get some rest beforehand. We're both so exhausted, it's possible that we could dose off!
27 April 2011
The Details
(A few years ago my brother called me dramatic. I didn't understand why.)
(Now, I think I do.)
Originally, I thought we'd get a house where we would make a few adjustments. But then we found this home. That's when we determined that we're not really the people who make adjustments to homes. It really is move-in ready.
(Don't be completely fooled, I have a 5-year to do list.)
(It involves new kitchen cabinets, new floors and moving the living room wall out about 5 feet.)
(But for now, it's absolutely fine.)
Here are a few pictures of our new abode:
Our backyard looks out over a green belt owned by our school district. The fence has a gate that opens so that a child can walk to school. Because we're nerdy and have favorite trees, I'd like to share that this house has almost all of our favorite trees. These include: Dogwood, Bradford pear, Redbud and Japanese maple. I'd like to add a Magnolia tree in the front yard at some point.
The only downside is that this area has a problem with copperhead snakes. On a scale of 1 to 10, my hatred of snakes is 287. In fact, last week on the news we heard a story about 70 snakes that were saved from the hands of a snake smuggler. I sarcastically commented that I was SO GLAD THE SNAKES DIDN'T DIE. I realize that they are God's creatures, but I don't cry when there's one (or 70) less snakes in the world.
(The word you're looking for is ANYWAY...)
We've been advised to sprinkle moth balls around our yard and house. Snakes don't like the smell of them. Neither do I, really, but I like moth balls more than snakes. So if you live within a 30 mile radius and are in the need of moth balls, you'll need to order them online.
Here are before pictures of the inside (taken for the real estate add by the former owners, so it's all of their stuff). All of the common areas were a buttery yellow. Not bad, but not me. Then there was a nursery painted light blue with white enamel clouds sponge-painted on. Again, not me. Not even for a babe. (Nothing's in the oven. No need to ask.) One of my favorite things in a house are white, plantation shutters. I'm not a big fan of curtains since my style changes every 2.7 years. This house has them on every window. Love it!
Before moving in, we decided that the colors must change. I'm a big believer in Sherwin Williams paint, so that's what we bought. It can be more expensive, but it covers so much better.
I realize that it's a bold move to go with a color like Refuge in the living room, but all of our furniture is neutral--a chocolate brown couch, khaki chairs. I'm really excited to see it with our furniture moved in. My inspiration was the entry way on Modern Family. I fell in love with the color the moment I saw it. This isn't a great picture, but you can see a small patch each time they narrate from the couch.
Painters were at our house last Friday and Saturday; their names are: Kristina, Dad, Brother and Husby. Today my mother-in-law and her sister are painting the kitchen. Without me there. Bless them. I offered for them to wait until I got off work, but they assured me that they didn't mind working without me. We are so thankful to all who have helped us. The good news for them is that we believe in hiring movers!
We cannot wait to be in our new house. Instead of packing logically, I've been tempted to dump everything into boxes and sort it out at our new home. However, my OCD has prevented me from doing this.
In other news, this is the next busiest time at work. Graduation is May 14, and I'm helping to host a rather large going-away party for our chaplain the next day. After that, things will be so much better. I'm looking forward to slowing down just a bit--at least in one area of my life.
18 April 2011
What I'm Loving
07 January 2011
To Do List Update
To expedite this process, I donated anything that wasn't trashed. My intention was to write a list of everything, but I was too excited to get rid of things! There were shoes and clothes and shoes and clothes and a few other things. Ummm...because confession is good for the soul, I have100 magazines boxed and ready to deliver, PLUS the other 100 items already finding new homes. Yes, I have an issue with keeping magazines. But I've embraced it and am taking control!
Yes, I took it. And it came home with me on the hanger. I can't bear spending so much on this. I think I might actually sell my dress. Don't get me wrong: I LOVED IT. I'm just not super attached to it. And it's beautiful. Someone else could enjoy it.
Print wedding portraits finally and have framed
We decided which prints we want, I just didn't make it to the printer. Dang it.
Organize closets (Husby's, mine, and
I actually organized two other closets, but didn't make it to ours. It'll happen. It could be when we move out someday, but it will happen.
Some things were cleaned, but not the whole house. Lots of dusting happened, though. I just HATE vacuuming! And I don't think the house will ever be clean at one time. I need to learn to be okay with that.
Organize the cabinets off of the kitchen
Didn't happen.
Complete recipe binder reorganization
Just need to write a few more recipes and purge any loose papers. A couple of hours, and it'll be done!
Layer foam, batting and fabric over wood frame.
Fabric at Hobby Lobby; doesn't go on sale--take 40% off coupon. Need 6 yards.
Found at The Wood Shed (unfinished furniture)
Found here. Actually, I'll aluminum leaf, since it's cheaper.
Order aluminum leaf, Quick Set Gilding Size
To do this month.
Decide on new bedding (but wait until January White Sales to buy)
Can't find any simple, white bedding that I love, but I'm looking!
It looks great!
I always dread this, and I promise that I'll never decorate as elaborately, but that won't happen. As much as I love the decorations, I really am fine when they come down. Now our house seems more open again and not as cluttered.
I hope that over the next few weeks, our bedroom will start to take shape and that a few more of these things will be knocked off the list. I just love the feeling of accomplishment when a list is complete!
17 December 2010
Merry & Bright
I feel like I finally got a decent picture of our Christmas tree. I played around with some buttons that I'd never used on my [6 year old] camera. It's amazing what can happen! You can see the ornaments and lights (although there are colored and clear lights), and the super cute red and white ball garland. That's this year's new addition, and I love it!
Our mantle. I should have taken a side view of the mantle. It's about 7 inches wide and slopes down to the front, which causes all sorts of anxiety for me. See the red glittery stuff hanging off the front? I feel like it's only a matter of time before it all falls down. I've collected all types of Christmas trees over the years (mostly on clearance at Pier 1 and Target). I like the look of random trees. This year's addition to the mantle are the fun little stockings all over. Cute, huh?
I found this frame a Target a couple of years ago. I had to have it, but wouldn't spend $7 on it. I just knew it'd go on clearance. The next time I was in, I couldn't resist; I spent the $7. The silver tree is from my great-grandmother's Christmas decorations. I love that I have it!
This wreath hangs on the door between the kitchen and living room. It's courtesy of my mother-in-law, who happens to supply many of my Christmas decorations.
Here's the kitchen. We have windows along the wall of the kitchen, which doesn't allow for much storage space, but I like that it's so open. I decorated each set of windows with various wreaths and serving platters, many of which I've had since college. The little angel in this picture was made by my great-grandmother; it's around 50 years old. Again, love it!
This platter is one of my favorites. Isn't the reindeer so cute?! I also love the gumdrop tree.
16 December 2010
A Christmas Break To Do List
I wasn't successful at purging 100 items before Thanksgiving. I gathered about twenty and had others in mind for removal from our home, but wasn't able to complete the project. So that will stay on my to do list, along with several other things I
- Purge our home of 100 items (donate to Goodwill, sell on Craigslist, throw in the trash)
- Take my wedding dress to be preserved finally
- Print wedding portraits finally and have framed
- Organize closets (Husby's, mine, and one other)
- Clean, clean, clean (also read: vacuum, dust, mop)
- Organize the cabinets off of the kitchen
- Complete recipe binder reorganization
- Research making a king-sized upholstered headboard (find navy velvet fabric)
- Search for end tables to silver leaf
- Research how to silver leaf
- Decide on new bedding (but wait until January White Sales to buy)
- Organize my iTunes account
- Hang the huge clock we received for a wedding present
- Undecorate after Christmas :(
24 October 2010
Recovery
In the time I've had to recoup, I've enjoyed redecorating rooms (inside my head). If you've been reading long, you know that I've struggled to come up with my style. You know--country, modern, traditional. And I still don't know 100%, but I do know that I'd like not to get tired of anything too quickly. I found this picture in Country Living magazine a few months ago, and I loved it immediately:
I don't love everything about it, but I do love the headboard, the white bedding with pops of color and the stencil on the wall. I decided that it would be a great starter for a bedroom (since we have white bedding, which I love). I've contemplated having a headboard custom made into a similar shape, since this carved headboard would be way out of our price range. And THEN, guess what I found from Ballard Designs? You won't even believe it!
It's almost the exact headboard (minus a few decorative birds). And it's more in our price range than a custom-made headboard. Then I've daydreamed about fabrics. My main problem with fabrics (bedding, included) is their permanency; I like to change things out. Pretty often. BUT if it's inexpensive, then I wouldn't feel as bad about doing a little change-out. I do like these from fabric.com:
So other than decorating rooms in my head, I haven't done just a whole lot. Husby did convince me to play xbox with him; then wanted to know if I preferred XMen or Justice League. Is there even a difference? I'd like to share that my skills still haven't developed past Super Nintendo.
20 August 2010
Friday Fives: My Dream House
26 February 2010
Friday Miscellany: Color Edition
19 January 2010
Three Day Weekend Productivity
05 January 2010
A Little Ridculous
03 January 2010
Creating a Home
After almost three months of marriage, I feel like we're--well, I'm--developing a style for our home. I've always loved tons of styles, and still do, but I've felt that you have to pick one style for your home. I feel like I like I'm drawn to lots of different styles: traditional, modern, vintage, rustic, shabby chic. You name it, I'll find something about it that I like. I also love lots of colors: red, blue, green, orange, yellow, purple, black, brown, white. Oh, and also lots of patterns: stripes, plaids, argyle, animal print, polka dots. I now think it's okay to mix styles, patterns and colors--within reason--to create a house that we'll love.
While registering, it was so hard to find something in two days. I need time to make a decision. Sometimes lots of time. My go-to was neutrals. I decided that we could live with them without tiring as quickly. Our bedding is this white set with a blue quilt. With walls painted Latte from Sherwin Williams, our bedroom is nice and calming. But I think I found the bedding. I love this from Macy's! It's a little modern, but neutral. There's also this from Pottery Barn. With a little color thrown in to a neutral background, I really like it a lot. (If I had my way, I'd have multiple sets of bedding to change throughout the year. Oh, the choices!)
We recently ordered this new couch for our living room. Again, I went with a neutral. But with the intent of having a colorful throw pillows. We currently have a green rug, which works nicely, but what I'd really like is this zebra rug. And then maybe these red pillows. I think I could love it! And hopefully, Husby would, too.
It's so much fun designing a home. Although it takes some time since we do live on a budget, because I'm such a slow decision maker, I think it works nicely. I'd love feedback on mixing styles, colors and patterns!
09 December 2009
O, Christmas Tree
02 November 2009
Hello, I'm Mrs. Wait
16 November 2008
Our House is a Very, Very Fine House
Growing up, I remember my mom talking about her house when she was a child. I loved that her home had wood floors; our house had carpet. She recalled stories about waking up on cold mornings, touching her feet to the floor and chills running through her. She had a rug beside her bed to soften the dreaded ice cold floor. I also remember how dreadful it seemed when I heard that they carpeted the floors. I couldn't believe that a work of art was destroyed with carpet and glue and staples and tack strips. The nerve! And to know that this was a trend, how absurd it seemed! I watch home improvement shows where a treasure is often found when carpet is gleefully peeled from a corner. A few days later, beautiful floors are shown in a finale, and the art of wood floors is displayed through a house.
Imagine how I felt when I walked into this house with my landlords on a day in April. I wanted to sign the rental agreement once I saw the wood floors. I could even overlook the bland, gray Berber carpet that was on the stairs and second floor because the living room and kitchen--the showcase of the house--had wood floors. One afternoon soon after moving in, my roommate called to tell me she'd peeked under the carpet, only to find wood floors throughout the house. Although excited, we knew the work required to resurface wood floors was more than the time we could give. We decided that the carpet would stay. Little did I know how much I would love the gray loops that cover the second floor.
Once cold weather sets in, the beautiful floors become the area of our home that we'd like most to avoid. They're cold! See, our house is on a pier and beam foundation, which makes it drafty underneath. We're forced to wear slippers downstairs at all times. Not only are the floors cold, but the pretty, single pane windows and supposed lack of insulation makes for a super cold house, floor to ceiling. For comfort, scarves, slippers, and gloves are added to our basket of blankets and offered to guests.
Last night was our first really cold night. I added a blanket to my bed, turned on the heater, and snuggled down for the evening. When I woke this morning, my first task was making a cup of coffee to warm up. I went to the staircase and started downstairs, and it was so cold (at least 10 degrees cooler than the entire second floor). Before my feet hit the wood floor, I ran back upstairs for my slippers. As the coffee brewed, I turned on the space heater and added a scarf to my pajamas and slippers. I dared to open the door and was greeted by a bright, sunshiny day. My coffee soon ready, I poured a cup and ran upstairs to thaw my toes. As cold weather settles in, I'm sure I'll promise not to spend another winter in a house that is drafty and cold, but I love my house. I do.






